I have been with them because I was attracted to them. I liked how they looked naked. I know that you may have your body issues, even we skinnier girls have them. However, if your gf knows that you would like her to compliment you or say that you look good she just might oblige. Also, I am a person who shows love through gestures and thinking of my girlfriend. Some of my girlfriends have needed me to touch them or tell them that I love them instead of the meals I cook or things I do to show I care.
This may be an issue too. Stigma sucks. They can be supportive and help you stay healthy. Maybe this would be good to discuss with your doctor. Seems like something a therapist would have a lot of experience with.
I would be dumping her roughly now. You do what you want about it but that shit is dismissive and erases an entire presumably important! It is way out of line. Talk first! But do it soon. Just wait. Seriously, 4 months is not very long and you need to give her time.
She is obviously not against you if she bought you a binder. Come read it! And to expand on the situation, since I told her I was trans many times she has mentioned when I came out the first time as gay. She also says really misgendered things about other trans people. She also really supports LGB issues but for some reason not T. Constantly talk about a trans friend or celebrity make one up if you have to using the right pronouns. It was slow progress, but progress none the less!
And connect it to an example that would make sense for her, like if someone called HER by male pronouns or something. Unfortunately you also have to give her time…. You could try to correct her when she misgenders people.
This worked with someone in my family. That said, coming out as queer is v. I really have no idea, but I would think you should get it out of the way as soon as possible. This is pathetic. Personally, I was overseas for a couple of years in awesome, awesome Montreal and gained confidence there that I was OK. Nobody had an issue! Happy ending :. The similarities between people are much larger than the differences, really! You are most definitely not pathetic and not alone! I came out during my past year abroad which is coming to an end too.
I have already come out to most of my close friends via skype and have gotten nothing but complete acceptance! Does she seem like she has feelings for you too? If you just boldly go in for the kiss, she might not like it and it could make your friendship awkward. Best to respect her possible desire not to be kissed unless you have good reason to suspect she might want you to kiss her.
Is it necessary to hint, or could you just say it? My preferred method is to talk about her constantly which I do reflexively and exhibit extreme date like behaviour before she picks you up. Like changing your outfit three times, being excited about the evening to the point of telling everyone your plans, twice, and sitting by the door so you hear the bell … This is how my Dad found out I was seeing a girl.
No matter what, you have the right to be comfortable in your living situation, so if your roommate is NOT ok with your identity, you can get help to find an alternative living situation. If it is depression, as the above poster suggests, then she may not have the motivation, energy or drive to do the above things. If you think this might be the case, educate yourself about it, so you can better understand what she is going through and how you can support her.
Perhaps get her to read about it herself so she can learn some self care techniques. When you are feeling down, doing the simple things like having a regular sleep routine, eating regular healthy meals, getting outdoors, exposure to sunshine, and exercising can make a big difference. The important things are making her aware that she is supported and not alone because she has you and then slowly try to build up the support networks around her. If you find out, let me know. I go through stone periods, too although I am a femme.
Sometimes those periods have lasted years, other times months or hours. Just wanted to say you are definitely not alone in this. It can be incredibly frustrating and upsetting. It ended up being dragged on, and it was really awkward for me and probably painful for her. My advice is to just kindly be honest with her about how you feel. Bipolar disorder is very commonly stigmatized, but it is way more common than people think.
Unfortunately a lot of people assume it just means crazy and look at media representations of it which are often inaccurate. At one point I was working very closely with a therapist and I actually had a couple of people close to me come in with me to my therapist and one awkward conference call and it provided a way to share what was going on with the people I cared for, as well as someone who could answer their questions with a background they were sure to respect.
Being prepared is important, but the fact is, if these people love you, and they have seen your turmoil, they will perhaps at the least be in a way relieved to know there at least is a reason all of this has been going on, and also a good idea of how to handle it.
One thing I read a while ago that I really enjoyed and it may just be me because the specific perspective was very much like my own was An Unquiet Mind by Kay Jamison.
Best of luck. That said. So even if you do try to slowly — slowly! Is it actually on the record that this girl is straight? First is just cool it off with her because that shit seems attention-seeking and annoying. Second is go for that kiss, which ought to settle things one way or the other.
You do have to end this right away, you know. There is no good way to be dumped. Do it quickly and probably in person. I still want to go to the beach on Thursday, though! Minus the going to the beach later thing, that level of brevity is just fine. How often does this conversation occur?!? Are you dating or just constantly rehashing the one time you maybe had sex?
Either way, it seems really obnoxious of her to keep forcing this point, possibly stop having this or any other conversation with her forever. Oof, I feel this one. That might make it easier to create some distance if they become overbearing about it. This is so hard I say as a person who, having come clean about her mental illness in high school, spent the next several years being the worst psychiatric patient ever because the whole thing felt so invasive.
How recent? Did you inherit? Sorry to hear that. Family is very important to me. I don't know your relationship with them but I know how I would feel. It's a little callous, but the death that led to my inheritance was far up the chain to me. And after being orphaned it's kinda hard to feel bad for an old man who died at the age of ninety surrounded by three ex wives gunning for his stuff. Cearmaid responded to Formspring on Sunday 25 December, at What do you like to do on long road trips?
Crawl the walls and wonder why the hell I got talked into going on a long trip. Cearmaid responded to PlasmaCutter01 on Sunday 25 December, at How about after? I dunno, it's kinda hard to call it busy. I didn't have much of what you'd call free time, though. Honestly, being rich is really fucking weird, people expect you to come up with your own stuff to do. What do you do on really cold days?
So what did you pick up anyway from the Indian place? Not Tikka Masala I hope. They did a sampler deal with what they call Junior curries - most of the spices toned diluted. Butter chicken, lamb rogan josh, khorma, and I just went back and picked up some vindaloo for myself and some of the parents. Also, I bought all their naan bread. Cearmaid responded to Tenebraxa on Monday 26 December, at I don't mean to presume, but I do want to wish you luck with your legal and financial situation.
I imagine it's been a kind of crazy year now! Thanks for the good wishes, but really, the biggest 'huh' of my financial situation at the moment is trying to find some way to make this money problem someone else's. The reason I asked about conspicuous giving is because I'm already matching four charities for the month of december, and, according to the accountants, that's practically MAKING me money.
I never had much respect for the rich, and now I am rich and I see how hard it is to stop being rich, it makes it even sillier. Cearmaid responded to SanderWilson on Monday 26 December, at Who is making all that noise down stairs?
Five kids convinced they can start a band because they've played a video game about it. If you want I can head down and tell 'em to knock it off. Cearmaid responded to Tenebraxa on Tuesday 27 December, at You don't have to live rich it's alright if you do, a little!
But, I wouldn't just give it all away. You'll fix a lot of problems today, it's true. And have nothing left to fix the new ones tomorrow. It's a responsibility, but an opportunity, too. Well, just giving it away is hard, too, because nobody wants it like that, and as it turns out, my pile of money is one in the scope where several people's jobs are predicated upon its continued existence.
It's not like inheriting a value and more like inheriting a machine, a machine that I have a responsibility to keep operating as cleanly as possible. It's just daunting, that's all. Cearmaid responded to SanderWilson on Tuesday 27 December, at How do you define 'love'? I don't think I can. I love you, Sander, and I love my parents, I love cooking for people, but in completely different ways.
It's such a big word I get lost in it. Cearmaid responded to on Tuesday 27 December, at You just realized you have become everything you hated as a child. What do you do? It's this kind of thinking that's why I never got a tattoo.
What opinion could I ever hold that, ten years later, I didn't think was stupid? What is your favorite kind of plastic? Cearmaid responded to Formspring on Tuesday 27 December, at Who's your favorite movie star? Who can pick one? Should I name someone obscure enough that people won't recognise the name immediately, like Carla Gugino or Jennifer Beals, or do I go for the artsy-fartsy angle with Shigekatsu Katsuta?
I hate to be a downer during the holidays but When was the last time y'all felt like a third wheel, and how did y'all deal with it? Honestly, what I do is I do my best to befriend the party I know the least - and if that doesn't work, I just go. I don't need everyone around me to like me all the time, and sometimes folk just need their space. Zex wanted a cheery secret. I will try and indulge her, yes Sunday paper cartoons?
Plastic toy guns or dolls? Comic books? Burger King collectables. When Mom was alive, when she was coming home late she'd swing through burger king and buy herself a meal for dinner. She'd get a kid meal, and eat the burger on the way home - and I'd stay up late to say goodnight to her, and she'd give me the fries and the toy.
Cearmaid responded to MidnyteFlare on Tuesday 27 December, at What kinds of things do you like to do for your birthday? My own birthday falls between the birthdays of two of my best friends, and right next to a public holiday here. So I am typically just plain busy, and spend my birthday proper just chilling of an evening.
Cearmaid responded to HiroAntagonist on Tuesday 27 December, at TMI Tuesday, Holiday Edition: Based on your behavior on Christmas, were you good enough to get a gift, or naughty enough for a lump of coal?
I got a plate of homebaked gingerbread from one of my tenants and a kiss on the cheek from someone's aunt. I also got a carpet square. Interpret the naughtiness as you will. Cearmaid responded to HiroAntagonist on Wednesday 28 December, at TMI Tuesday: If you could take your partner to any one place in the world for a wild and passionate night, where would it be?
Used to be I'd dream of being one of those guys who could take a girl in a limousine to a fancy hotel with room service and wine and cheese and such and we'd spend the evening doing whatever we liked. Now, turns out I own two of those hotels and I have no girls who want wooing. Cearmaid responded to on Wednesday 28 December, at We haven't done it in a while but And now, thanks to a kid looking at my phone at the wrong time, we have the commons room forming up into upholstery based factions.
Pity the kids who are on Team Bedpillow. Cearmaid responded to SanderWilson on Wednesday 28 December, at Can you dance? Yes, but strangely, not with people. I'm good at morris and Celtic dance. What is your preferred method of transportation? Do you like animals? Oh, a lot. It's taking a lot to resist the urge to buy one of every animal that I've wanted and a property big enough to house them.
Cearmaid responded to SovereignFist on Wednesday 28 December, at OOC: Is the concept of a villain being a hero in Paragon without some form of legal agreement silly to you?
Do you consider the possibility of a black market counterfeit mediporter ring and fake hero IDs laughable? Is the opposite h to v the same? I don't consider it laughable but I do consider that unless it's handled well it diminishes the competence and heroism of everyone around them. Characters like Paul Ocean who effectively plan on being one-man walking apocalypses coming back and 'working to redeem themselves' trip well past my believability scale because at a certain point, you have to recognise you don't neuter a rabid dog, you shoot it.
The villain-to-hero flip has plenty of precedence in legal grey areas that I can be okay with it, you just have to make sure the character's of a scope that doesn't make every hero around them a laughable joke for not saying 'To heck with the law' and doing what's right.
Cearmaid responded to Formspring on Wednesday 28 December, at Do you have a favorite sport? For some reason, I find myself massively interested in surfing now.
Cearmaid responded to SanderWilson on Thursday 29 December, at What is your favorite and least favorite smell? My favourite smell is probably cheap fast food. Something that makes your arteries go clang when you get near it. My least liked smell is chardonnay - it just smells like pretension. Cearmaid responded to on Thursday 29 December, at What do you know about "dark matter"? If nothing, what do you think of when you hear it?
I know what scientists mean when they talk about it, and don't get scared or imagine crazy nonsense when it comes up. Because I read.
Cearmaid responded to Formspring on Thursday 29 December, at Do you like fast food? Cearmaid responded to SovereignFist on Thursday 29 December, at So, for those of you that have had a first job, how did you eventually lose it? Got too old, so I got too big to get under the railings. Cearmaid responded to HiroAntagonist on Thursday 29 December, at Do you have a favorite novel?
If it's too hard to pick just one, how about a favorite author? I don't have a favourite, because there are lots and lots of great books. Do you have plans for New Years this year? Probably do the same thing I did on Christmas - use the common space to bring some families together.
Cearmaid responded to HiroAntagonist on Friday 30 December, at What is your favorite thing to drink? Or favorite things if you'd rather talk about different kinds of drinks. It's a little odd, but I've found that some flavours get better if you starve yourself of them for a while.
I often go five, six days at a time without touching anything but cold water, just so that I have a contrast with the flavours of drinks I try at the end of that period. Of course, that was a habit originally born of necessity. What's something new you've tried recently? Did you like it? I tried on the shoes of Ebenezer Scrooge - at the end of the book - and the coat of Walter Mitty and found they both fit quite nicely.
Cearmaid responded to Formspring on Saturday 31 December, at What are you looking forward to in ? Will you stay up 'till midnight tonight? I stayed up until midnight LAST night. Stop living in the past! Cearmaid responded to on Saturday 31 December, at Has anyone ever flown first class?
I had no idea it was this nice. My chair turns into a bed! Weirdly, no. I haven't flown since I came into money - and beforehand when I had to travel it was sardine-stuffed into a bus. Cearmaid responded to EikoMagami on Saturday 31 December, at Why are so many gorgeous women so mean? They're not. Mean people are a minority, they just don't stand out in your mind. Or I could say something misogynist, if you really want, but I wouldn't believe it. Cearmaid responded to EikoMagami on Sunday 1 January, at So, exactly how tired or hungover are you this morning?
Cearmaid responded to Tenebraxa on Monday 2 January, at Some of us make New Years resolutions. Typically, these are things we want to change, or do differently.
What's something you wouldn't ever alter or give up? Big or small, it doesn't matter. Just something non-negotiable when it comes to resolutions! What I'll be doing on three particularly depressing days of the year.
Cearmaid responded to Formspring on Monday 2 January, at What's the last thing you watched on TV? Last thing that was broadcast on TV that I watched was middle-of-the-night broadcasts of Japanese ice hockey. And we bet on it. Because we were goddamn drunk. Cearmaid responded to Formspring on Tuesday 3 January, at Would you rather text or talk? I didn't have a mobile phone until September. Cearmaid responded to PaulOcean on Tuesday 3 January, at I just noticed a week or so ago you mentioned Paul as being an example of a villain who would be executed, not redeemed.
Does that take into account he has an extreme personality disorder? That absolutely does! The character you have chosen to create is one who poses an existential threat to humanity and whose stability is a tenuous thing. You do not keep a nuclear bomb with an erratic trigger around because it might do some good. I get the allure of playing that kind of character and I even get the allure of redemption stories.
But you have a character who has transcended thoroughly the possibility of redemption in life - you can't shake the devil's hand and say you were only kidding. In the nicest interpretation, Paul Ocean is a man whose life is connected to the life of a mass murderer, and the latter cannot be killed or imprisoned without the killing or imprisoning of the former.
The most heroic - indeed, the only truly heroic - act that Paul can therefore commit is to remove himself and the possibility of his existential threat from the world.
Anything else is selfishness. Cearmaid responded to SovereignFist on Tuesday 3 January, at I learned that I'm really easy to goad into things I never thought I'd do. More competitive than I thought. Cearmaid responded to on Tuesday 3 January, at People go on and on about what heroism means, but what does it mean to be a villain? To be a villain, to truly be a villain, is to be selfish in a way that ruins others and never to notice it.
The most deranged of all villains have been absolutely certain that their aims were being done for good. Since I'm out of town looking for a couple of important people in my life, figured I'd ask, what drives you to keep fighting? There's an alternative? Nothing worth having comes without struggle. Cearmaid responded to EikoMagami on Tuesday 3 January, at I invited the new AnbaricAmber to join us here on Formspring.
She's very new to this kind of technology being from and all - so like - no spoilers for the past 28 years! Cearmaid responded to MaxImpact on Wednesday 4 January, at How do you deal with fear? What's a fear that you've overcome recently?
Could you do so again? I haven't ever had a hard thought about it. Even the idle fears I've had I haven't realised until they're in my face and there I am, dealing with them. The most recent fear I had was that I'd spend Christmas on my own with a can of beans and a snarling attitude that was going to get worse year after year. Cearmaid responded to Formspring on Wednesday 4 January, at Do you remember your dreams?
Only a particular subset, and they tend to work as rich fields for my imagination when I'm awake again. Cearmaid responded to HiroAntagonist on Wednesday 4 January, at Do you like playing card or board games? Any particular favorites? Why are they your favorite? They didn't require power, the equipment was usually cheap and if you bought one once you could use it again for years and years without it needing regular updates. Yeah, I collected them - slowly - when I was younger, until becoming good at poker was a good way to augment my income.
Then I got really good at poker. WYRW: Have a big house or an apartment? A big house is at its best if you intend to fill it with kids. As it is, right now, I have an apartment. WYRW: Live in the city or the country? Not that the country isn't nice, but I was raised in the inner city, so I don't trust air I can't see. Cearmaid responded to MonkeyLass on Wednesday 4 January, at Sun Wumei shall ask another question before afternoon nap: What is your favorite animal?
Sun Wumei warns that there is a correct answer to this question and those who choose incorrectly shall have their tails cut off. Cearmaid responded to EikoMagami on Wednesday 4 January, at How much do you hate these stupid advertisements on FS with the sound that you can't turn off!?!?
I don't ever see them. Do I have an ad blocker or something? I don't know. I bought this phone from a fairly tech-savvy guy. Have you ever felt pressure not to date outside your race? Not literally. When my mother was alive, she had a very negative stance on me dating or even befriending girls who either weren't Catholic enough, or were 'too Jewish,' which is really, really awkward to hear her say in front of strangers. WRW: Would you rather have a big front yard or a big back yard? I'd rather small yards because someone has to mow them.
I'd rather a big back yard, of those options, because I could keep a big dog there and he wouldn't bark at the passers by. So, at the risk of being rude Where are you from? You know, all the usual info. I don't think we've met either. I'm a guy who was looking up girly pictures on his new phone, typo'd the name, and wound up reading PlasmaCutter01's Formspring.
Realised she was semi-local - or at least has an interest in our local affairs - and that got me asking anonymous questions. I met her in real life, coincidentally, and she told me to get on Formspring so she could ask me questions, which she, by and large, doesn't do because I picked the Christmas period to join up. I'm from Paragon City, and I'm not sure what else is usual info. Those are the only two we use regularly, I think. Especially since Eiko marked it as WRW at one point. Cearmaid responded to on Wednesday 4 January, at But you know I can be There's something super-creepy about a telepath saying this about high school girls.
Sun Wumei's nap lasted for eight hours. Sun Wumei must ask this: Do you know where to find an alarm clock that puts up a better fight?
Morning brawls are always great! What time of day do you have most energy at? Cearmaid responded to TheAndrogyne on Wednesday 4 January, at Best 5 dollars you ever spent? Worst 5 dollars you ever spent? Cearmaid responded to MonkeyLass on Thursday 5 January, at Sun Wumei is going to bed and has this question for those of you who have enemies most underhanded: What precautions do you take to sleep at night?
Sun Wumei sleeps with her big bad person wacking stick and has finely honed alarm clock breaking reflexes! I don't really take any. The angels were not intended to be his enemies, though it is unknown what purpose they were meant to serve. Whilst hiding in the lab from with the other trolls, he comes to the conclusion that there is no hope left and informs both Feferi and Sollux of his plans to join Jack Noir.
Feferi refuses an invitation to join him, and Sollux decides that he has to stop Eridan and challenges him to another duel. Sollux's eye beams are no match for Eridan's magic science wand and he is knocked out, and when Feferi attacks Eridan in retaliation, he kills her.
Kanaya looks on in horror at the murder and starts to go for her weapon, while Eridan holds his wand at the ready. When Kanaya hesitates because of the Matriorb next to her, Eridan obliterates it destroying the hope of troll re-population, appropriate, given his mythological role and then kills Kanaya when she attacks him. It was fuckin unconscionable. Eridan absconds from the room through the transportaliser as Karkat stares in disbelief at the carnage, vowing to kill him.
However, Kanaya, after returning from the dead, takes care of this herself. Once she finds him along with Gamzee and Vriska in a 3x showdown , she promptly disables the latter two, " debunks " Eridan's wand, and pulls out her chainsaw for some vengeance, sawing him in half. Cronus , his dancestor , flirts with him and asks him out to which Eridan agrees to but not before expressing his disdain for him.
Eridan's corpse is preserved by Gamzee Makara, and he is later revived as half of Erisolsprite to be Jake English 's corresponding player. As the Trolls' session had many Doomed timelines , Eridan had many alternate selves. However out of all these alternate selves only one has been seen outside of brief cameos in the flashes. This alternate self had ascended to the god tiers before dying and was seen in a dream bubble with an alternate Feferi. Many more alternate Eridans were seen during Mini-Strife, featuring various different outfits, most notably "March Eridan".
Eridan has an affection for tales of historical leaders, conquerors, and military history. His passion for these extravagant stories of conquest and glory lends itself to his overly theatrical mannerisms and his massive ego. As a result, people tend to see him as a "bit of a tool". He is described by Kanaya as overbearing, to the point where he has been blocked on Trollian by Vriska, of all trolls.
He also likes magic and wizards, even though he knows that magic obviously doesn't exist. This may be a contributing factor in his vaguely Harry Potter -esque appearance. He loathes Land Dwellers and the litter they produce. His hate for Land Dwellers extends to such a level that he has devoted himself to killing them all, as a result of an overpowering genocide complex.
He aims to achieve this goal through the collection of deadly weaponry, such as the absurdly overpowered rifle that he wields, and the pursuit of a functional doomsday device, one of which he solicits from Vriska. Much of his weaponry and resources were amassed through sweeps of extreme roleplaying , making him one of five trolls known to partake in that particular sort of game.
The two were an unmatched alliance and brutal competitors, just like their ancestors. Typically trading and sharing the prizes of victory, Vriska would feed the victims of their conquests to her Lusus , while their lusii would be fed to Feferi's gargantuan lusus to keep her happy.
Kanaya says that he has a ridiculous accent, but what kind of accent this is indeterminate, although Andrew has said that he pronounces his "vv"s double v's as "w"s. This is likely because "v" is pronounced with a "w" sound in Latin. It is also similar to how the Finnish pronounce English, possibly turning it into a fish pun. Eridan also has a tendency to swear rather a lot - though not as much as Gamzee - and thus appears to not fully appreciate the moral guidelines that are lent through his royal heritage.
Despite allegedly hating all terrestrial life and being extremely dramatic about it, Eridan's tough facade crumbles when faced by his friend s? When told by Gamzee that Sollux is dead, Eridan immediately felt guilty and stated that he felt like an asshole for seeking relationship advice from Karkat at such an inopportune time.
He was unhappy with Gamzee for giving poor advice and not being able to help with Karkat's problems, which he seemed to consider more immediately important than his own.
Eridan, though firmly stating his disbelief in it, has a fascination with magic, going so far as to pester Rose for the purpose of " learning her secrets ". Later, he managed to pester Kanaya into creating a wand and training him in the ways of "white magic science". Unfortunately, this stops being a joke when he uses the wand to kill Kanaya and Feferi. Killing two of his closest friends may not have much of a positive effect on his sanity or his longevity, since by killing her, he turned Kanaya into a rainbow drinker.
Eridan had a flushed crush on Feferi but didn't "play his cards right" as he implied in a conversation with Kanaya and then later admitted to Feferi , leading to a moirallegiance between them in lieu of the romantic relationship he would have preferred. During their relationship, Feferi spent all of her time worrying about him and trying to keep him from committing genocide or hurting himself and expressed frustration at his reluctance to talk about his feelings or listen to her own.
Eridan, for his part, didn't kill all of the land dwellers because he knew it would upset her and helped her feed her lusus. After Feferi's entry into The Medium , she terminates her moirallegiance with Eridan as a result of Eridan's overbearing and taxing nature.
This devastates Eridan, although he takes the chance to ask Feferi about them becoming Matesprits instead, which she promptly refuses as well. He is later seen attacking Sollux whom Feferi was in a matespritship with during the game, presumably in jealous rage. Later on the meteor, he tries to get Feferi to leave with him to join Jack, but Feferi refuses. Feferi attacks him after he knocks out Sollux and he fires at Feferi with his wand, killing her.
Later on, as Erisolsprite , he apologises to Feferi for killing her. In the dream bubbles, seemingly right after his death, one of his ghosts is greeted by Feferi, Aradia and Sollux.
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